Tag Archive | My Dating Experiment (a.k.a. “50” Different Dates)

Random: My Sex Bucket List (and updates) (and a question for you!)

Sorry I’ve been  MIA lately.  I haven’t been going on dates, so don’t think you’re missing out on anything that I haven’t written about.  I’m not sure really what I’ve been doing….I guess I’ve been working.  And catching up with friends.  And just living in general.  Ya know.  I’m a pretty boring person.  I haven’t really been in the  mood to go on dates either.  I’ve gotten a bunch of “Winks” on What’s Your Price  lately, but I’ve just been ignoring them.  I’m really over it.  In fact, I think I’m going to delete my profile from there soon.  Like right now, actually.


Yep. Pretty much the majority of the guys I’ve spent any extended period of time with.

Anyways, as we all know, my goal this year was to go on a date with 50 different guys.  Unfortunately, the year ends in about 9 days and I’ve only gotten to 34 (35 will most likely happen with my potential “TOWWETB” but more on that later).  I mean, there’s still a chance that 16 different guys will want to go on a date with me in the next few days, but the chances are highly unlikely.  Either way, I have no intentions of doing my final write up for my blog until the end of the year, so as of now, it’s still on!!

I think part of the reason why I am not very interested in going on anymore dates is because of my potential “TOWWETB”.  He’s still only a potential because we haven’t gotten to that point of figuring out exactly what it is we are or want to be and all that emotional, scary, I-might-run-away-if-we-have-that-talk stuff.  Yes, I realize I am fucked up when it comes to that stuff in more ways than one.  As much as I would love to tell you all about him, 1.) We haven’t gone on an official date that meets the criteria of this blog yet so I feel I shouldn’t write about him just yet and 2.) I don’t want to jinx anything.  I will say that things with him definitely feel different than with all the other guys I’ve gone on dates with this year, and that different feeling is a good one.  So maybe this one might just work out.  🙂

As far as the question for you all, again as I’ve said previously, the end of the year is approaching.  The whole idea behind my blog was to go on 50 dates with 50 different guys this year and write about them.  But what to do after the year is over??  Miss Jane Champagne had a great suggestion to amend the 50 dates part and just continue to write about my dating life and my dates in general, which I think is probably what I’m going to end up doing.  I was also thinking about just starting a new blog in conjunction with this one, still about dating but just about my dating life in general instead of a specific goal.  And then I had the idea of sticking with the 50 dates idea, but this time making it 50 guys from each and every state here in the U.S….so like one guy from each state.  So I want to hear from you all…what would you like to see me do??  I could make this more of a general dating blog and just write about my dates and about my dating life in general, guys from my past, silly things I think we all do in dating, etc.  Or I could stick with the 50 and do it again next year if I still haven’t found someone.  Please let me know, I appreciate any and all feedback!!

Okay and now for the exciting part of this post…my Sex Bucket List.  🙂

Let's talk about sex babbbyyyy

This is honestly something I’ve been thinking about for awhile, and unfortunately most of the men I am ever with are not as adventurous as me so I haven’t been able to live out this list.  I guess I’m somewhat of an exhibitionist, for lack of a better word, when it comes to this because I totally get excitement from the idea of having a sexual rendezvous in not-so-normal, semi-public places.  The only exciting places I’ve ever done anything are on a golf course near the 18th hole and in the back of a bar where they store kegs.  So here is my list of places I would like to get it on:

*Beach…not really out of the norm, but I haven’t done it yet, so I count it.

*Tennis Court

*Church Confessional…I think I’m going to hell for even saying this one.

*The Stacks at Norlin

*At the Gym…specifically my gym

*In a Limo

*In an Airplane

*In a Dressing Room (preferably at Victoria’s Secret)

*On Stage…not with everyone watching or anything, just on a stage at a theater of sorts

*Somewhere extremely cold…like one of those ice bars or in a walk in freezer

*In a BDSM club…just once – just to say I have done it

Hopefully one day, I find someone just as adventurous as myself.  In the meantime, I’ll just keep looking!  😉

Random: “Whooah (I’m) halfway there….”

OOHHHH, LIVIN’ ON A PRAYER!!!!  (Ha, I had to.)

So yes, I am finally halfway to my goal of 50 men by the end of the year.  Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately), I have yet to fall (fall hard, that is) for any of them.  While there have been plenty of guys who seemed like winners, I was able to find something about them that really rubbed me the wrong way.  I’ve also come across some very interesting men who, if I hadn’t started this blog in the first place, I would never had had the chance to…..experience, for lack of a better word.  This blog has definitely given me the opportunity to broaden my horizons when it comes to men and has given me some insight on dating in general as well.

I guess know I’m a little late in getting to 25, since if I wanted to be on time with the year, I should have completed 25 dates by June.  But I have every intention of finishing this out and completing my goal of 50 men.  Unless I find “The One Who Will End This Blog.”  Which at the moment, is highly unlikely.  Is that good?  Bad?  Neither?  Who fucking knows.  All I know is that I’m extremely competitive, and right now, my main goal is to get to 50.  But don’t you worry, if I DO find “TOWWETB” (refer to above), I will most definitely be stopping my 50 dates and turning this blog into something else (most likely still date related).

I should be on this show.

But with that being said, I think this is a sign that I am still not ready to settle down in any way.  Considering the fact that I have gone on 25 dates this year without happily settling down with one of them (yes, there have been some that I definitely considered dating, but it obviously didn’t work out), it’s safe to say that I am still on the prowl for my next victims dates.  I’m trying to line up a few through What’s Your Price, although the website overall has proven to be completely ineffective for me in finding good, quality men (except for “Dream Maker”, we actually still talk a lot, just haven’t gotten around to hanging out again).  I’ve decided recently that “Mr. Big (Present)” is out of the picture for good (for now)- I just don’t have any interest in him anymore.  But he always has a way of coming back…which is why he’s “Mr. Big”!  I do have a few prospects though (maybe): a guy that is temporarily working at my work who is in town only for another couple of weeks, my gym crush who I still haven’t spoken to…but I do stare at him daily and just admire, a few other friends of friends who I haven’t gotten around to contacting because I’ve been…well, just lazy really, and I’m sure I’ll find a way come up with some more.  There’s also my “Secret Crush” who I’m still not saying anything about other than he’s a secret.

So in conclusion, I’ve still got 25 different men to date in order to complete my goal.  Will I fall for one of these 25?  Or will I end up realizing that one of the first 25 was actually the one for me?  Or even worse (or better, however you take it), will I not end up with anyone at all??  Stay tuned!!!  😉

This is totally random…but this is my current celebrity crush. I want him. I want my future husband to look like him. If someone can find him for me and convince him to date me and sing love songs to me all day, I would be the happiest lady alive. Just putting it out there.

Oh and I guess that wasn’t the conclusion really haha.  But taking a cue from Are You Friggin’ Kidding Me? (check out her blog if you haven’t already, it’s pretty awesome!), I want you all to “choose your own adventure,” as she puts it.  Only I’m not giving you all prompts haha.  I’m running out of ideas for things to write about between dates, so I’m giving you all the opportunity to tell me what to write.  What do you want to hear from me?  Is there something you want to know about me?  About my dating life?  About what the fuck is wrong with me and why I can’t find a guy?  About how I’m cursed in dating?  Is there something you’re dying for me to write about and you’ve wanted me to write about it this entire time, but I just haven’t hit the topic?  If there is something, please, please, please….let me know.  =)  If I like the idea enough, or if I get lots of responses on the same topic, I’ll write about it!!  =)