Tag Archive | Goals

Random: “Whooah (I’m) halfway there….”

OOHHHH, LIVIN’ ON A PRAYER!!!!  (Ha, I had to.)

So yes, I am finally halfway to my goal of 50 men by the end of the year.  Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately), I have yet to fall (fall hard, that is) for any of them.  While there have been plenty of guys who seemed like winners, I was able to find something about them that really rubbed me the wrong way.  I’ve also come across some very interesting men who, if I hadn’t started this blog in the first place, I would never had had the chance to…..experience, for lack of a better word.  This blog has definitely given me the opportunity to broaden my horizons when it comes to men and has given me some insight on dating in general as well.

I guess know I’m a little late in getting to 25, since if I wanted to be on time with the year, I should have completed 25 dates by June.  But I have every intention of finishing this out and completing my goal of 50 men.  Unless I find “The One Who Will End This Blog.”  Which at the moment, is highly unlikely.  Is that good?  Bad?  Neither?  Who fucking knows.  All I know is that I’m extremely competitive, and right now, my main goal is to get to 50.  But don’t you worry, if I DO find “TOWWETB” (refer to above), I will most definitely be stopping my 50 dates and turning this blog into something else (most likely still date related).

I should be on this show.

But with that being said, I think this is a sign that I am still not ready to settle down in any way.  Considering the fact that I have gone on 25 dates this year without happily settling down with one of them (yes, there have been some that I definitely considered dating, but it obviously didn’t work out), it’s safe to say that I am still on the prowl for my next victims dates.  I’m trying to line up a few through What’s Your Price, although the website overall has proven to be completely ineffective for me in finding good, quality men (except for “Dream Maker”, we actually still talk a lot, just haven’t gotten around to hanging out again).  I’ve decided recently that “Mr. Big (Present)” is out of the picture for good (for now)- I just don’t have any interest in him anymore.  But he always has a way of coming back…which is why he’s “Mr. Big”!  I do have a few prospects though (maybe): a guy that is temporarily working at my work who is in town only for another couple of weeks, my gym crush who I still haven’t spoken to…but I do stare at him daily and just admire, a few other friends of friends who I haven’t gotten around to contacting because I’ve been…well, just lazy really, and I’m sure I’ll find a way come up with some more.  There’s also my “Secret Crush” who I’m still not saying anything about other than he’s a secret.

So in conclusion, I’ve still got 25 different men to date in order to complete my goal.  Will I fall for one of these 25?  Or will I end up realizing that one of the first 25 was actually the one for me?  Or even worse (or better, however you take it), will I not end up with anyone at all??  Stay tuned!!!  😉

This is totally random…but this is my current celebrity crush. I want him. I want my future husband to look like him. If someone can find him for me and convince him to date me and sing love songs to me all day, I would be the happiest lady alive. Just putting it out there.

Oh and I guess that wasn’t the conclusion really haha.  But taking a cue from Are You Friggin’ Kidding Me? (check out her blog if you haven’t already, it’s pretty awesome!), I want you all to “choose your own adventure,” as she puts it.  Only I’m not giving you all prompts haha.  I’m running out of ideas for things to write about between dates, so I’m giving you all the opportunity to tell me what to write.  What do you want to hear from me?  Is there something you want to know about me?  About my dating life?  About what the fuck is wrong with me and why I can’t find a guy?  About how I’m cursed in dating?  Is there something you’re dying for me to write about and you’ve wanted me to write about it this entire time, but I just haven’t hit the topic?  If there is something, please, please, please….let me know.  =)  If I like the idea enough, or if I get lots of responses on the same topic, I’ll write about it!!  =)